Thoughts

Weathering the Storm in Your Relationship

Today was another rainy spring day in Maui. Usually, I feel sad when it storms, but today it occured to me what a gift that it really is. There is the... Read more >>

Fun & Facts on Orgasm

Mary Roach is the author of Bonk, a wander through comtemporary sex research, full of fascinating tidbits & anecdotes about human sexuality.  Here... Read more >>

Tips

Amazing Kissing Techniques

We have a great surprise coming for you!  A brand new video from Carla on some amazing kissing techniques to rekindle passion & spice up your sex... Read more >>

Feeling the Touch of Nature

This morning, I woke up early. I went out where my porch faces east, and I watched the sun rise up out of the ocean. It was an amazing, sensual experience. The... Read more >>

For Couples

5 Tips to Foster Great Communication 5 Tips to Foster Great Communication

Good communication is the foundation of every great relationship. Listening and being listened to are signs of care and respect for your partner. When you feel cared for, you have more energy flowing through you, and sex is better. Tantra is based on such caring and respect for your partner. Here are some good tips: Make sure you have your partner’s... Read more >>

The Art of Ecstatic Love and Deep Connection The Art of Ecstatic Love and Deep Connection

Tantra is the art and science of living consciously and joyously. It teaches to fully accept and expand sexual pleasure as a gift, and to celebrate it to go deeper into love. Most people’s perception of Tantra is limited to controlling sex so you can have it for hours and hours in strange positions. Tantra is much more than that. It includes 64 arts... Read more >>

Losing Your Home Without Losing Your Relationship Losing Your Home Without Losing Your Relationship

If you check on RealtyTrac.com, you can see how many houses are in pre-foreclosure in your neighborhood. I checked my own neighborhood recently, and was shocked to see that just in the area with my zip code, there are 1,120 houses in pre-foreclosure. It’s scary. I understand the trauma that you experience when you lose your house. You have identified... Read more >>